Holy conferences

The other night two brothers and I had a cup of coffee and a little, impromptu holy conference in my living room — sharing lives, the Word and prayer. How sweet a time!

As puritan pastor Thomas Manton comments on Psalm 119, he calls believers to gather for “holy set-conferences” for sharing the Word of God and spiritual edification. While I think he is referring primarily to small groups and Bible studies, perhaps he also has something more commonplace in mind…

If our hearts were as they ought to be, we would have a gracious word more ready; we would either be beginning or carrying on good conversation wherever we come. …It is not the duty only of ministers, but also of private Christians… to instruct one another.

It is a great part of that holy communion that should pass between saints, this mutual exhorting, quickening, and strengthening one another’s hands in the work of the Lord.

The Lord Jesus Christ even did something of this within in His little flock of disciples. He often singled out some for more intimate conversation and instruction — as with Peter, James & John at His transfiguration, and in Gethsemane.

This mutual edification differeth from ministerial or church-society, because the one is an act of authority, the other of charity; the one in the face of the congregation, the other by a few Christians in private; and it may be improved to awaken each other to consider of God, of the ways of God, the word of God, the works of creation and providence, redemption, the judgments he executes in the world, mercies towards His people, the experiments and proofs of His grace in your Christian warfare.

Find a brother or sister in Christ and have yourselves a holy conference!
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Tattoos and biblical counsel

I love this response by Dr Moore to a young man who writes for advice on: Should I Get a Christian Tattoo (Even If My Parents Don’t Like It)?

First the letter….

Dear Dr. Moore,

I want to get a tattoo. I’d like it on my stomach, with a cross, with the words, “Flee Immorality: You Were Bought with a Price.” I’d like this as a measure of accountability for myself as the years go by, in case the zeal I have for the gospel ever wanes and I’m ever in a place of temptation this will be an ever-present reminder of what I know to be true.

I am really convicted that this is what the Lord would have me to do. Here’s my problem.

I am 19 years old and a college student. I live at home with my parents. I work and pay for my own school, but I live with them. I love my parents and truly believe I honor them, but where does “honor your father and mother” end? I really believe this is an issue of obedience in doing what the Lord seems to be directing me to do.

You probably agree with my parents that I shouldn’t get the tattoo and I can respect that. I’ve thought it all through. My question isn’t whether I should get the tattoo; it’s whether I’d be sinning against God and my parents if I did it.

If I am under their authority right now, when does that end? When I’m 21? When I’m out of the house? Or does it ever end, when it comes to making decisions like this?

Sincerely,
Bought with a Price

Then this response….

Dear Bought,

First of all, I hope my sons grow up to be like you, in all sorts of ways seen in this question. Your letter evidences a lot of commendable qualities: a desire to identify yourself radically with Christ, the recognition that you must protect yourself from your own potential future rebellion, concern for honoring your father and mother.

The command to honor father and mother never ends. Continue reading